Undoubtedly to be misunderstood is something effectively very disappointing, specially when it comes from a person you love, or you think knows you profoundly.

No one likes to be misunderstood; however, when it happens, it can take us by a complete surprise, and, in occasions, it carries out a lot of pain in our inner soul, since the misunderstanding hits us where it hurts more: coming out from our beloved ones.

What to do them, in these cases?

In my own and very personal opinion, we have two ways of resolutions: by one hand, we can dismiss the misunderstanding, and pay no attention to it; but here, we are just avoiding a problem..Never, solving it!

On the other hand, we can try to clarify our situation, which means to talk to the person who misunderstood us, and, if we not succeed on this… Then we have the only way to take a step aside from the scene with dignity, having the inner conviction to act our right way.

 

MARÍA NELLY SALINA

MARCH 2020

2 Replies to “WHEN YOU ARE MISUNDERSTOOD”

  1. First of all let me congratulate you for your excellent level of English.
    Now I am going to tell you what happens to me when someone, who I have known all my life misunderstands me. I feel really upset and sad, and I think how can this person have this idea or opinion about me. And sometimes I ask : Do you really think that I am capable of doing this or that.? I can give you hundreds of examples that come to my mind.

    1. My dear and great friend; thank you so much for your opinión !! I have improved my level of English through years, and now I can say it is very much better than the moment I knew you..Besides, let me tell you that I understand you perfectly well, when you tell me you feel sad when you are misunderstood…It is something very logical, since you are, as I am too, a very spontaneous and sincere person; I feel exactly the same way, in this specific situation!!
      I really thank you from the bottom of my heart, for your kind opinion, Moni!! The best for you, always!!!

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